My dad was always ‘Dad’ except on days when I loved him more than on the ordinary days – like the days we’d spin the old Seagull engine into life and he’d let me pilot our little boat around the headland to Porthdinllaen, orange fishing line, hoping for the distinctive tug of mackerel.
He died eight years ago – but I found an old Ilford photograph the other day and spontaneously said aloud, ‘my Daddy’ …
In sunny Funchal, Madeira, I’m thinking today, of course, of my beloved old Dad on what would have been his 90th birthday; he’d memorised all 16 stanzas of ‘Lucy Gray’ as a young teenager and his reciting the great poem for my late wife and I, word perfect, not long before he (and soon after, she) died, four years ago, is among my dearest memories. My parents’ enthusiasm for sailing oceans is with me now every day as I have followed suit – and it was a great joy to have my mother with me when, during a Mediterranean tour, we visited many of the holiday favourites of their early married years.
Oe’r rough and smooth we all trip along – and though, of course, we’re sometimes singing our ‘solitary’ song, and memory’s tears well in our eyes, still, in our hearts, our loved ones abide 💕
For all that has been, thanks For all that will be, yes!